OK... before we talk about Valentines day, I am sitting here watching Something Borrowed, Something New on TLC. Have you seen this show where the bride has to decide between wearing a new dress or her mothers dress? This Mom today just said that the new dress her daughter was wearing didn't look as "young" and new as her dress... her dress from the 80's. Did she seriously just say that? Cause I'm an 80's girl too. I get wanting your daughter to wear your dress. I am even a vintage lover... but um hello? 80's, formerly white, now yellowish, sad little turtleneck dress.... Let's say it together... It's her wedding. It's not about you. OK... see, I feel better now. That was infinitely better telling you rather than continuing to talk to myself and the TV since we are the only ones here to listen. Now are you saying um it's date night. It's after midnight. Why are Monogirl and the TV the only one to talk to at Monogirl's house? Well that would be because Mr. Monogirl is currently at a
Valentines Day... well judging from the picture are you thinking it was pretty perfect? You would be correct. The day started with a little baking project for my husband. I mean actually I should just say I baked a cake... but um trust me. This cake is a project. Take a look.
This would be the chocolate cake that I first made for my husband 3 days before our wedding back in 1987. It was for his birthday. I've told you the story before. My young, in love, wants to please her man, self decided to make a 3 layer chocolate cake with real whipped cream filling and from scratch icing on a 100 degree day in a mobile home with no A/C. It was not my best decision ever. The cake part involves mixing and cooling a cocoa mixture. Sifting things. Beating things for 5 minutes at a time. The whipped cream of course prefers coldness and chilled bowls and beaters and um NOT being made in a 100 degree mobile home in June. The icing? Melted chocolate, cream, butter cooked and then whisked together with powdered sugar in a bowl sitting in another bowl full of ice in a 100 degree mobile home in June. Did I mention that part? I thought that icing would NEVER turn into icing... now that I've made it again I see why. It takes time, and cooling for the chocolate to set up and even begin to approach something resembling icing. No wonder I added like a box of powdered sugar back in 1987 trying to turn it into something resembling anything that would stick to the cake! ha! I mean... was I young and in love or what? Now I'm all oh Monogirl.. what were you thinking?
Well... now I'm old and in love and my husband has talked about this cake for years so I wanted to make him another one now that I know what I'm doing... right. I sifted. I melted. I beat. I chilled. I stacked the perfect 3 layer cake.... right up until the end. As I am finishing icing I notice the layers have slid a little. I try to gently.... slide it back. This of course causes the layers to almost completely slide apart causing me to tilt it back the other way causing me to look like I am playing one of those little games where you have to tilt to get the little BB in the hole. Not so good for layer cakes. I manage to get it straight... but realize what has happened is my whipped cream got too warm... and slippery.... and I need to get it back in the fridge. My outside icing? Not looking so good. So I chill. I try to repair... I get one side looking half decent. The other side? Has a lip of whipped cream sticking out all the way around. Lovely. Oh well. I figured it would taste good. I mean chocolate cake, chocolate frosting and whipped cream? What's not good about that no matter how smooshed up you get it? Darrel was thrilled with his Valentines cake and we enjoyed a yummy dessert together after dinner which was at home with carryout from Olive Garden.
My gift was this lovely Swarovski Crystal tennis bracelet. LOVE. Is he good or what? Picked it out all by himself he did. He also gave me two cards, one of which was left for me in the morning with this little bottle of Jessica Simpson perfume. He said he didn't know what it smelled like but it was pink, it was Jessica Simpson, what wouldn't I like about that? I told you he was smart. The day before Valentines he had another little fiestaware bowl for me full of dove chocolates. This time the bowl was yellow. LOVE. Oh! And he sent the pink roses to work on Wednesday. :) LOVE again.
My gift to him was 2 filters for his camera lenses, a hand strap for his camera, and a lens cleaning pen thingy. He is all about the camera right now so I am thinking that was the perfect fit. After recovering from the cake adventure, I got myself cleaned up and fixed up for our "date" while he picked up our dinner and I also found some time to whip up this valentines card.
Not too shabby for a quick card making session? The strips in the center are washi tapes. The heart punch in kraft was from a Martha Stewart anywhere punch. The border punch is also Martha. The "love" metal word was one of my gifts from Darrel during Valentines month and the papers were left over from our vow renewal wedding favors. Cool right?
It was a good day and a great month and we had so much fun. I pronounce the creation of Valentines Month very good. And... I am so thankful for the fun we had all month, for the romance, for Valentines Day and for a husband that knows how to speak my language and continues to sweep me off my feet after 28 years together.
And as if all that weren't way more than enough, there is even more to be thankful for this past week such as....
- Date night in Kentucky
- relaxing at Barnes and Noble
- Sunday lunch at La Carreta
- my Sunday School class and the sweet ladies that are a part of it
- flowers. I love flowers. Especially pink roses
- fiestaware!
- actually creating something... even if just a card. Hey its a start!
- reading
- my favorite gray sweater
- gel manicures
- the new Survivor season to watch together
- this verse: Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right, persevering, and steadfast spirit within me. - Psalm 51:10. God has put that verse in my path several times lately.
- chocolate cake
- new scrapping supplies
- music
- a new doorknob for the garage. The old one will NOT let you put your key in to unlock it without a major struggle which is made even more fun when Miss Sophie is doing her trampoline act on the other side of the door hitting the window.
- and with that I am also thankful for Miss Sophie.
- my new tool carousel.
- a husband that shops
- diet Pepsi
- long hair
- my parents
- compliments from my husband
- kind words from a friend
- understanding
- pink label makers
So many blessings. God has been good to us. I hope you have a fabulous weekend. Monogirl is probably going to need to rest some. She is feeling the fatigue today. Maybe she will rest at the scrapping table....
Blessings!





